Don't be that girl...

 I have often seen girls crying for the guy who left. I have often seen them wasting their life for someone who doesn’t just care whether you exist or not.  

But,

Dear Girls… Please stop being that girl. That girl who goes back continuously and thinks that every time will be different. I understand you miss him, and it’s just so easier to breathe with him around. But isn’t it easier to smile when he’s not breaking up with you, or getting mad at you for nothing?

Truly, you don’t deserve to be the backup; you really don’t deserve that in your life because that person is the one who has already taken you for granted. He thinks he can drop you any time and pick you up whenever he feels like. But, don’t be that girl who he can take for granted. You are not a toy that he can play with your feelings every time.

Don’t be someone who thinks at each time he comes around he means what he says and won’t leave again when everyone knows that he will; he will again leave you in your old condition. And then you just end up looking like a fool...

Again, I get that you are happier when he is texting you and cuddling with you. But aren’t you happier when you aren’t crying on your floor because he hasn’t said a word to you all day? No one can tell you who to be. But don’t be that girl because you are smarter than that girl; Stronger than that girl and worth a hell of a lot more than that girl.

So, stop being that girl; you are not a toy but your father’s princess who deserves to be loved, cared and respected… :)