To everyone reading this post,
To all the men turned dogs,
I am a girl, a girl who has not been raped or molested but something
even worse happened in my life. I was eve teased a number of times. I go to the
crowd to find a hand struggling up to my breasts without any one witnessing it.
But, I felt it and the very moment left my life shattered in a jiffy. The guilt
remains hidden in my heart and it will so forever.
Another day, a pair of brown eyes rested its views on my covered
cleavage. The pair kept on ogling to find at least a glimpse of my hidden
assets. He kept rubbernecking while I stared at the ground helplessly as no one
bothered to give a supporting hand to me.
So what if I am not raped, does that mean my self-worth and my esteem isn't lost. Every time, I travel through autos, the auto drivers adjust their mirrors to have a glimpse of the slightest of my uncovered body. While travelling on feet, people pass comments "Hey sexy, how have you been?"
So what if I am not raped, does that mean my self-worth and my esteem isn't lost. Every time, I travel through autos, the auto drivers adjust their mirrors to have a glimpse of the slightest of my uncovered body. While travelling on feet, people pass comments "Hey sexy, how have you been?"
All these situations do not amount to molestation, I agree, but can you
term it as of lesser significance to that? Every day, I find eyes on my body
and trust me, the guilt in my heart keeps on accumulating each day. I can never
live the life; I used to live before as a free bird.
But, the question, I wanna put forward is, “Am
I born just to listen to these weird remarks and do nothing about it? Have I
been given birth to please men with no self-regard for myself? Am I born only
for the pleasure of men? Do you think that is the sole purpose for the birth of
a girl?
NO. Obviously not. I am not born for that. I
want to have my freedom too… I wanna fly high up in the sky with no one to stop
me; I wanna walk into trains and buses without having looked at lecherously. I
am a woman, a woman who deserves a good life, a woman who is not treated as a
commodity for sexual pleasure but as a woman of substance and dignity. I am
just a woman, who craves for security, nothing else.
But, can you provide me with that? Can you?
But, can you provide me with that? Can you?
-A FRUSTRATED
LOOKED-DOWN UPON GIRL.